Make reloading workboards with "R" respect workboard ordering

Summary:
Depends on D20653. Ref T4900. Pass ordering details to the reload endpoint so it can give the client accurate ordering/header information in the response.

The removed comment mentions this, but here's why this is a difficult mess:

• In window A, view a board with "Group by: Owner" and no tasks owned by "Alice". Since "Alice" owns no tasks, this means the columns do not have an "Assigned to: Alice" header!
• In window B, edit task T and assign it to Alice.
• In window A, press "R".

Window A now not only needs to update to properly reflect the state of task T, it actually needs to draw a new "Assigned to: Alice" header in every column.

Fortunately, the "group by" code anticipates this being a big mess, is fairly careful about handling it, and the client can handle this state change and the actual code change here isn't too involved. This is just causing a lot of not-very-obvious indirect effects in the pipeline to handle these situations that need complex redraws.

Test Plan:

• After making various normal edits/creates/moves in window A, pressed "R" in window B. Saw ordering reflected correctly after sync.
• Went through the whole "Group by: Owner" + assign to unrepresented owner flow above. After pressing "R", saw "Assigned to: Alice" appear on the board.

Reviewers: amckinley

Reviewed By: amckinley

Maniphest Tasks: T4900

Differential Revision: https://secure.phabricator.com/D20654