Depends on D19084. Fixes T13078. When phabricator.silent is enabled, immediately fail the "HTTP Request", "CircleCI" and "Buildkite" build steps.
This doesn't feel quite as clean as most of the other behavior of phabricator.silent, since these calls are not exactly notifications in the same way that email is, and failing to make these calls means that builds run differently (whereas failing to deliver email doesn't really do anything).
However, I suspect that this behavior is almost always reasonable/correct, and that we can probably get away with it until this grey area between "notifications" and "external service calls" is more clearly defined.