Ref T4788. Fixes T7820. This updates the "Merge Duplicates In" interaction, and adds a "Close as Duplicate" action.
These are the last interactions that were using the old code, so it removes that code.
Merges are now recorded as real edges, so we can show them in the UI later on (originally from T9390, etc).
Also provides more general support for relationships which need EDIT permission, not-undoable relationships like merges, preventing relating an object to itself, and relationship side effects like merges.
Finally, fixes a couple of behaviors around typing an exact object name (like T123) to find the related object.