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Summary: Ref T3373. This is probably about as good as I can get without actual design, but it seems mostly improved over what we had going on before?

Test Plan: {F52087}

Reviewers: btrahan, chad

Reviewed By: chad

CC: aran

Maniphest Tasks: T3373

Differential Revision: https://secure.phabricator.com/D6613