The fact an instance cannot be re-enabled by the user after disabling it is a big deal. This should really be shown in a separate confirmation dialog *after* confirming that you really intend to disable a specific instance (ref T8879).
PS: I don't know what the reasoning is to prevent people from doing this, but if it's related to preventing abusing the system by continuously stopping and restarting instances, maybe it could be allowed to re-enable an instance within 30mn or something.