Ref T9252. This fixes a bug from D14236. D14272 discusses the observable effects of the bug, primarily that the window for racing is widened from ~a few milliseconds to several minutes under our configuration.
This SQL query is missing a GROUP BY clause, so all of the resources get counted as having the same status (specifically, the alphabetically earliest status any resource had, I think). For test cases this often gets the right result since the number of resources may be small and they may all have the same status, but in production this isn't true. In particular, the allocator would sometimes see "35 destroyed resources" (or whatever), when the real counts were "32 destroyed resources + 3 pending resources".
Since this allocator behavior is soft/advisory this didn't cause any actual problems, per se (we do expect races here occasionally), it just made the race very very easy to hit. For example, Drydock in production currently has three pending working copy resources. Although we do expect this to be possible, getting 4 resources when the configured limit is 1 should be hard (not lightning strike / cosmic radiaion hard, but "happens once a year" hard).
Also exclude destroyed resources since we never care about them.